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Friday, October 13, 2017

"You cannot shame or belittle people into changing their behaviors"

"You cannot shame or belittle people into changing their behaviors"
(Brene Brown, "I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn't): Making the Journey from 'What Will People Think?' to 'I Am Enough'", in google books context)
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